Quality
Life becomes simpler and lighter. When you love yourself more then things simply become lighter and easier. You won’t make as many mountains out of molehills (or out of plain air) as you used to. Or beat yourself up or drag yourself down over mistakes or temporary setbacks.
If you love yourself means you drop the attachment to the relationships.
The Law of detachment:
This law says that in order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This doesn’t mean you give up the intention to create your desire. You give up your attachment to the result. This is a very powerful thing to do. The moment you relinquish your attachment to the result, combining one-pointed intention with detachment at the same time, you will have that which you desire. Anything you want can be acquired through detachment, because detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of your true Self. Attachment comes from poverty consciousness, because attachment is always to symbols. Detachment is synonymous with wealth consciousness, because with detachment there is freedom to create. True wealth consciousness is the ability to have anything you want, anytime you want, and with least effort. To be grounded in this experience you have to be grounded in the wisdom of uncertainty. In this uncertainty you will find the freedom to create anything you want.
Allow yourself and others the freedom to be who they are. Do not force solutions – allow solutions to spontaneously emerge. Uncertainty is essential, and you path to freedom.
Uncertainty is fearful to the ego, which always wants to control reality, but from the viewpoint of detachment, a constantly shifting and changing universe must remain uncertain. If things were certain, there could be no creativity. Therefore spirit works through surprises and unexpected outcomes. We achieve peace of mind only when we accept the Wisdom of Uncertainty.
Uncertainty is another word for creation. Uncertainty means change, development, it is the field of possibilities.
When one seeks security, this becomes unbroken link to the familiar, the familiar with the past.
The known is nothing other than the prison of past conditioning. There’s no evolution in that — absolutely none at all.
Evolution is possible due to the unexpected events, the change, and the unknown, precisely the uncertain.
What you have to do is to refuse to seek security, to stop clinging to things, and to accept uncertainty as the Wisdom of the Higher Power (anything that this may mean to you) and the hidden order in the Universe.
Quality of Tape Measure: Detachment
