Anger Is Obstacle
We all are unconscious regarding our Anger, if we become conscious regarding our Anger, anger will transformed. First we go through why we are unconscious regarding our Anger and than how to transform.
The world’s wisdom traditions take a different tack, offering two valuable insights:
1.Your anger is all about you. You will never deal with it until you look inward to examine yourself.
2. Once you look inward, you will see that anger isn’t part of your true self. Be your true self and anger is solved.
The first point keeps you from the endless circle of blame, where you look out into the world and spot something or someone who enrages you, thus giving anger its power. The world’s wisdom traditions understood that bad things happen, and often they are unimaginably bad. But however vicious the crime, violation, or war, anger is always personal; it’s seed infects even the best causes. Only by going inward and plucking out the seed can you contribute to the end of violence. This tactic doesn’t appeal to anyone who believes in fighting back, of course. Only after you accept the negativity of anger and its bad effects on you personally does it become feasible to test if going inward is the answer.
The second point says that when you do decide to go inward, you’ll be shocked at how entangled your anger is with your entire personality, daily actions, beliefs, and worldview. Every person contains the anger of centuries. The effect is so pervasive that there is no answer on the level of your ego-personality. It believes in anger and is also helpless to control it.
Transform the Anger: Live Your True Self
The level of the problem isn’t the level of the solution. To find the solution, you must go deeper into your awareness, where you exist as the true self—the level in everyone that is silent, at peace, and content to exist. The true self is the source of the wisdom you want to attain; it isn’t passive fatalism. You become empowered with more creativity, intelligence, tolerance, and compassion—the very things that have a chance to end violence in yourself and in the world. It’s worth considering whether the journey to the true self is valuable enough to follow. For me, there’s no other answer to the harm anger has caused in everyone’s life.