Learning
For Shoes:
Shoes are available whenever we want them and when we don’t want we can remove them; means keep distance from the body.
Codependency and Love
If we realize that every person in our life represents another part of our own self, how well we get along with these people tells us how unconditionally we are loving our own self. The more harmonious our personal relationships are can only indicate how in tune we are with our own self and life in general.
Understanding the two most powerful forces in human relations, the need for connection & the need for independence…both are essential for a breakthrough in the way we relate. This process offers tools to transform the game of love into a journey of self-discovery and personal development.
As our biology comes from a union of the male and female, we all carry these polarities within…this process is about this relationship that exists on the inside of ourselves, an alive exploration between our inner masculine and inner feminine energies.
When we have an integrated balance between these qualities within ourselves, we can experience an inner relaxed confidence to express our feelings, needs & values which brings a deeper level of nourishment and intimate connection within ourselves and our relationships.
The key to independence relationship is humbleness.
The dictionary definition of humble is one thing, but to know humbleness as an experience is totally another. The dictionary is the world of words, and humbleness…
The man of humbleness is not an exhibitionist; he does not show a consciousness of his defects or shortcomings. A man of humbleness simply is no more; he exists without an ego, without a personality. And without a personality you cannot have shortcomings and you cannot have defects. These are possessions of the ego. That’s why ego feels a deep inferiority complex whenever it sees some defect, some shortcoming.
The dictionary meaning is that if the ego accepts and shows its shortcomings and defects to people, it is humble. But the existential humbleness simply means egolessness: there is nobody to experience defects, there is nobody to compare oneself with others as being inferior, as having shortcomings.
Learning from Shoes: Be Humble
