Live Quality
Challenges are part of everyone’s life, but there are dark moments when a challenge turns into a crisis. The outcome of our lives depends on the choices we make at those moments. Will they be breakthroughs or setbacks? What we call wisdom is a crucial tool here. Without it, people usually make their most important decisions based on impulse or its opposite, habit.
It might seem impossible that any three questions can—and should—be asked anytime things go wrong, but the sad truth is that millions of us dwell on the three questions we shouldn’t ask, questions such as: (1) What’s wrong with me? (2) Whom can I blame? (3) What’s the worst-case scenario?
We all feel the urge to condemn ourselves out of guilt, to blame others for our misfortunes and to fantasize about total disaster. But these three questions will haunt you and do untold harm unless you consciously stop them, push them aside and replace them with the right questions, leading to the right actions.
Henna will like to share her experience:
I planned my next day before going to sleep. In the planning I am not open for any changes. I have all the resistance to any changes. In the process I found many this which are opportunity and challenges I miss them.
For example I have all my morning planning, with the expectation that the maid will come in time. Now when the maid don’t turn up in time I will be irritated and angry. So when she turns up I miss the opportunity as a human being. I start arguing and confronting her for messing up my schedule.
Now when I took up the subject I realise what I am missing when I am arguing and confronting the other person.
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao-Tzu
