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7 Stepping Stones on the Path to True Love

1. Let go of the past. Feeling unworthy and unlovable are illusions of the conditioned minds. What you see as your flaws are just hurts and wounds of the past. You must come to know that you deserve to be happy and fully loved.

2. Be comfortable with your weaknesses. Every person has positive and negative qualities. Weaknesses make you complete. Instead of using them against yourself, you need to recognize how they can help you grow and empathize with others.

3. yourself. By taking time each day to look into the mirror for just a few minutes and embrace the beautiful individual you are, you can grow in self-love.

4. Love yourself exactly as you are. By loving and embracing your authentic self, you will attract people who love you for who you are. Say to yourself, “I’m a beautiful person. I’m a loving person. I love myself just as I am.”

5. Be generous with yourself. You can express self-love through a gentle massage with warm oils, a nice meal, or a walk in nature. Nature itself is a true expression of unconditional love and serves as a vibrant, living example of how you should treat yourself.

6. Stop looking for the right person. Become the right person. All relationships are mirrors. When you fall in love with someone, you can write down what you admire about him or her and express those traits in yourself. This way you will not be using that individual to complete your needs, but rather as inspiration.

7. Don’t ask for more love. Be in love. Love is a state of awareness where you are connected to your spirit. When you express unrestrained, unconditional love for others and yourself, you light up the world around you. The more you put your attention on love, the more expansive it will become.

Let Bhakti share her own experience with you all:

Handling life for me has been an easy task as I am empowered by my parents to take my own decisions.. 

It was not easy for my parents to let go of their expectations from me. But they did that. They gave priority to support my decision and allowed me to grow in their presence. Instead of protecting me and asking me to follow their decision.

In the process I have been numerous ups and downs.. I have grown through my ups and learnt what I should continue doing.. I have evolved through my downs and learnt what I should not do..

Both the time they stood with me. Not allowed me to be driven by victory, but guided me how victory is an opportunity to grow in your work. And failure is also an opportunity to look that what preparation was lacking from my side. If we are not prepared ourselves we invite failure.

In the process I take my own decisions and happily accept whatever the outcomes turn out to be.. This complete freedom, self confidence, and trust in decisions is the result of the authority given to me on my own life by my parents.. So handling any situation that life poses in front of me has become a task that I am capable to do within a blink of an eye….