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Nar Nari ke sookh ko,
khansi nahi pahichan
Tyon gyani ke sookh ko,
aagani nahi jan.

The pleasure of men and women, a eunuch can never understand.
So the pleasure of knowledge, a foolish can never know.

Kabir is saying that – Sex is not an ordinary thing. It is one of the most substantial parts of your being. One should not be so unalert about it. It is the foundation of your being: you are born through sex, you live through sex; your birth is through sex, your youth is through sex, your love is through sex, and your death is going to happen through sex. Your whole life is a sexual affair. One should be very very alert and watchful of what one is going to do with one’s sex energy.

One who is very very alert and watchful of what one is going to do with one’s sex energy has experienced moment of egolessness, timelessness, meditation.
He will not be able to explain to the person who is living unalert towards one’s sex energy – what is egolessness, timelessness, mediatation. Similarly the person who had transcended the knowledge to knowing they cannot explain to ignorant person what is Transcendence.

What Kabir says – Transcendence is not repression. Transcendence is a natural outgrowing — you grow above, you go beyond — just as a seed breaks and a sprout starts rising above the ground.
According to Kabir – When sex disappears, the seed disappears. In sex, you were able to give birth to somebody else, a child. When sex disappears, the whole energy starts giving birth to yourself. This is what Hindus have called DWIJA, the twice-born. One birth has been given to you by your parents, the other birth is waiting. It has to be given to you by yourself. You have to father and mother yourself. Then your whole energy is turning in — it becomes an inner circle.