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Right now as we are we cannot be Catalyst for anyone’s growth.
We can start from the help. My suggestion is start as below:
Help someone for their requirements.
According to me following steps will be useful to help someone for their requirements and you will be able to learn how to be supportive to anyone.
1. Don’t help someone unless it is asked for, even that person may be your spouse or children.
2. After his or her request think whether you can help that person for their requirements. After giving proper thought only say yes.
3. Once you say yes then always remember that you will be helping that person without involving yourself in their emotional, mental and possessiveness.
In a way it looks a very thankless job. Where you will have to take their anger, hatred, ill feeling etc everything in gratitude.
If you can do this it will be first step towards your learning for supporting anyone.
Person like Buddha, Mahavira, etc only can be Catalyst. As we are we cannot be Catalyst.
Man is born as a seed; It all depends on you, what you do with yourself; it all depends on you whether you grow or you don’t. It is your choice — and each moment the choice has to be faced; each moment you are on the crossroads.
