My Nature

Irrational Wisdom

Love doesn’t need reason. It speaks from the irrational wisdom of the heart.

Sometimes you may meet someone and know in your heart that this will be the person you will spend the rest of your life with—how is this irrational wisdom of the heart possible? Your heart can answer all of your questions before your head decides what may be an answer.

Listening to what your first reaction and heart tells you can work well in helping you find a mate. It may be that irrationality does not play a role at all, it may be that all things are truly rational and as they should be. Finding love is as easy as allowing it to enter into your life. Allow positive energy to flow, do what makes you feel positive and the wisdom of the heart will take over.

Happiness for a reason is just another form of misery because the reason can be taken away from us at any time.

Reminding ourselves – to be happy was, at times, very difficult. We would always say, “all I want is happiness.” We said this because most of our life was filled with loss, poverty and struggle. We thought if our environment was better, we would be happy. We thought if we had more money, we would be happy. We thought if I had the better relationship, we would be happy. But we weren’t truly happy until we realized that happiness wasn’t an entity, it was a state of mind.

Being a positive person was a more realistic state to be in, so we strived to be more positive person. A relationship needs your positive approach, even when times are tough. So looking at the positive side of things helps so much.

When you make a choice, you change the future.

Things may get tough in your relationship; at times, sometimes very tough. While arguing with a partner continually is bad for your health, separation may leave you feeling unresolved. If you decide to get a divorce or split from your current relationship, it will forever-change your future and that of your family.

You may have been trying to solve a problem in an old relationship. Maybe you had a pattern of bad judgment that forced you to do things that may have been inappropriate. Meeting your present mate at this time is a way for you to work out that problem. Take time to evaluate the situation, you may leave and keep finding the same type of person, unless your situation is resolved.

You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.

A place where everything everyday disturbances do not upset your being, and that is deep within your heart. A place where your relationship will grow and change positively.