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Life is all about embracing people with completely with open heart and arms.. When we embrace people completely and willingly, we will start loving them and automatically we will surrender ourselves to every relationship of our life…
The Secret of Surrender
The secret of surrender, is to let go and flow.
It is not having the desire to convince, cajole, manipulate, control, or seduce.
Surrender is being alert to exactly what is happening now.
Inside is an impulse of love, dissolving some old imprint.
If we create any open space within ourselves, love will fill it.
No one is wrong.
In the eyes of love, all people are doing the best they can from their own level of sub consciousness.
We have no enemies, once we decide to surrender.
Surrender means not giving into another, but giving into love.
Love never forces.
Love is intelligent and brings only what you need.
Remember, in our inmost being, we are all completely lovable because spirit is love. Beyond what anyone can make you think or feel about yourself, your unconditioned spirit stands, shining with a love nothing can tarnish.
Reliance on Others
If we look to our relationships to complete us and fulfill our unmet needs for happiness and love, then those relationships often result in disappointment. And, if we believe that those we are in a relationships with are responsible for making us happy and whole, then we create unhealthy expectations that are impossible to meet.
This sense of lack can cause us to feel fear whenever our partner is not satisfying our expectations for attention, affection, and love, which leads to suffering and co-dependency. Such insecurity also causes us to act with jealousy and neediness, or to constantly seek approval. When this behavior becomes compulsive, obsessive, and destructive, it manifests as an addiction.
The Root of Love
The problem is that we look outside for love and approval, but our relationships reflect back to us what we think and feel about ourselves on the inside. When we are attracted to a person, what we are actually drawn to are the traits we feel we lack and the characteristics we want more of.
In order to fulfill our unmet needs for worthiness and love, we must learn to love ourselves fully. What we really seek is to reconnect with that unconditional love lying deep within the heart of our beings. To find true love, we must look inward and reclaim our own self-love.
Quality Of Handle: Self-Love
Tags: Surrender
