5 Reasons Why Uniqueness Is Awesome
Unique is the ultimate in rarity – and rare is always valuable.
Unique is memorable.
When you’re being your unique self, (i.e. being authentic and not trying to be someone else) you operate at your best level. It takes time and energy to suppress your true values, which means there is less energy available for achieving your goals.
Trying to be something you’re not or doing things that don’t align with your own inner values will make you less content, and therefore less productive.
Identifying what makes you unique means recognising the value you bring to the table – this is a huge asset when you want to progress your career.
Uniqueness is a huge strength, but how do you go about identifying your unique value? Well, what makes you unique is the fact that you are a particular combination of experiences, genetics, skills and education. There’s no one else like you. No one who has grown up in the exact same circumstances, had the exact same cultural and social influences, the exact same education, the exact same experiences …and processed these in the exact same way that you have. So to recognise what makes you unique, you need to draw up a full picture of who you are.
Our uniqueness can be found everywhere. It’s reflected in our personal experiences. It comes out in what we pay attention to. It’s found in our beliefs, hobbies, creativity, genetics, and sense of humor. We can also express our uniqueness in how we dress, how we show up every day in the world, and the people, places, and things with which we choose to surround ourselves.
You probably already know the basics of what sets you apart. It’s the things you do naturally, and love. It’s also a great idea to tune-in or hone in on your unique qualities to know where you really shine. Consider setting aside some time to brainstorm with yourself. Make a date, schedule it, and hold yourself to it. Then, ask yourself and write down your answers to the following:
- When do I feel the most comfortable in my skin? What conditions bring that about?
- What compliments do I hear most from others?
- What life experiences have shaped me most?
- When did I last feel true joy? And why was that?
- What would I pursue in life if I knew I couldn’t fail?
Remember, this is a brainstorm, so there are no right or wrong answers. Just reflect, and write away. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself.
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